The process of Divorce Mediation is a collaborative effort between the two spouses. The mediator is an experienced divorce lawyer who is trained to provide fair and balanced advice and support to both parties during this difficult time. Mediation is not binding and neither the judge nor the mediator can make rulings or orders to either party. Instead, the mediator acts as a facilitator providing feedback and encouragement to the parties to move toward a settlement. Both parties must agree on all issues and if they cannot, they can pursue the case in court.